Many times, people focus on big issues in their relationship, forgetting that tiny issues are also important. When talking about breakups, most people tend to ask, “what led to it?” And most of the time, everyone replies with an enormous reason. i would try to keep this as short as possible.
You may not notice it, but when the following issues build up, they can be enough to cause two people to break up.
#1 Being overly critical. Keep in mind, this isn’t nagging, which comes up next, by the way. Being overly critical means that when your partner makes mistakes, you’re too quick to scold them like a child, and of cause this a norm with our ladies these days.
#2 Nagging. “Did you do the dishes? Why haven’t you done the dishes? Did you get to work on time? Maybe if you went to sleep earlier instead of watching supersport, you wouldn’t be so tired all the time. Have you thought about that?” All this, this isn’t scolding, this is plain annoying.
#3 Bottling up emotions, thoughts, opinions, anger, etc. It helps to think of everyone as a ticking time bomb. If you bottle too much up, the meter goes up, and if it reaches a certain point, you’ll explode. Surely, you’ve been there before when your partner is making poor choices, and you sit back and bite your tongue for fear of them feeling hurt.
#4 Barely saying a loving phrase. This means saying “I love you,” or a simple “you look beautiful/handsome.” It’s not that your partner needs validation *hopefully they don’t, because that’s a whole other issue*, it’s actually just about adding another log to the fireplace.
#5 Hygiene. Didn’t expect this on the list? It can definitely lead to a breakup. If you don’t take a shower for, say, two days, and expect them to have sex with you, you’re sadly mistaken. If you walk around with greasy hair more often than not and you tend to smell, will they be happy parading you around their family and friends?
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Dis is so true.. Tnx man
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