Do Nigerian guys still want virgins?


Temilolu Okeowo
Temilolu Okeowo
So there is this 'Girls club' column run by Temilolu Okeowo on Saturdays, today Nigerian guys responded by venting out their thoughts on this 'not being a virgin, and being a virgin' issue. See excerpts below:

Dear Temilolu,
You may never know what blessings, what dignity and what power you are imparting even to generations unborn!
Dr. Aiyeola

Dear Aunty Temi,
I enjoy this divine assignment called Girls Club which makes me buy Saturday Punch. If only the editor could give us a page or two, then we can boast of 85.5 per cent male virgins. I often wonder who these female virgins would marry when they are ready to settle down. Would they ever find male virgins if we boys are still under this evil yoke? We need to balance it by creating Boys Club. I’ve read enough in this column, hear us out too. Since God has used you to plant a seed for future girls, plant ours, we shall water it and God will protect it. Aunty Temilolu, if Punch newspaper refuses our request, please tell them we shall publish ours. Thanks.
Roberts Jnr.

Dear Aunty Temilolu,
I am a regular reader of your articles in Saturday Punch. Though I am a boy, I cherish those write ups so much and I try as much to convey the messages to my female friends. Ma, my main reason for sending you this mail is to know if such a forum could be created for us boys! Keep up the good work. I would be expecting a reply from you.
Michael N.
As a man, I am very proud of this columnist and the precious ministry she disseminates through this column. How I wish all single young women earnestly embrace the tenets of chastity and purity she preaches. A woman’s worth and value flows directly from her sexual purity. As a successful and well established Nigerian-American male domiciled in the US, my Nigerian (maternal) side of the family often wonder why I refuse to marry one of the many beautiful females available to me. I simply tell ‘em I’m only interested in a woman with her virtues intact. I cannot consider a woman who has given her virtues to another man (or men) as my wife. Such a woman belongs to those men she has given or sold herself to. Chaste, pure and virtuous women are rare and are of exceptional spiritual value and inestimable esteem. Simply priceless! If I find such a jewel to marry, I would honour and value her more than all the money in the world. It is so sad that most women freely give away this their precious pearls. So very sad.
Brandon Landry
My darling, precious, glorious, dignified, world-famous and heavenly celebrated Nigerian sisters,
I marvel at the mindset of most of you which is that the major way to win the heart of a man is by your beauty and sexuality. No doubt, to keep her home, a married woman must look good and satisfy her husband sexually and in every other way God expects. However, any unmarried lady carrying her beauty and sexuality on her head and using that as a weapon to win a man’s heart is not only very foolish but on her way to the depths of despair. You must always have it in mind that men have a short attention span and no matter how beautiful and sexy you are, they will always find someone more exciting than you.
“Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.” Proverbs 31:30 (NIV)
A lady who keeps herself till her wedding night would remain her husband’s trophy for life. No matter how bad and way-ward that man is, deep inside he would always cherish what he has and have great respect for her. He knows her spiritual worth because she is the angel who would assist his destiny and forever an asset to him and his generation.
God is faithful to those who are faithful to Him. If you decide today to change your ways and remain chaste till your wedding night, as long as you maintain a close relationship with God and preach chastity to others, He is committed to giving you an excellent and equally chaste husband!
To be continued.
Dear fans of Girls Club,
Are you still engaging in pre-marital sex? Each act devalues you! Your wonders are waiting to start. God is waiting for you to become a Secondary virgin! You are most welcome on board the chastity campaign train and Girls Club is open for all girls and ladies. Please text your name, age, school or occupation and State of domicile to 07086620576.
The Girls Club of Nigeria is aimed at influencing a positive change in the female folk and re-orientating the Nigerian girl. Amongst other things, to promote and enhance the development of girls by instilling a sense of self-worth, competence, usefulness, belonging and influence while of course restoring traditional moral values and encouraging the girls to toe the paths of righteousness. If this generation can make amends, the next generation will come out clean. Don’t you think so? I love you all and I think you are all wonderful sisters!
For more inspiring articles and prayers against sexual perversion (masturbation, lesbianism, addiction to pornography and immoral thoughts etc.) prayers against ungodly soul-ties and prayers for recovery of virtues please visit my blog www.temiloluokeowo.wordpress.com
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Dear girls,
As designed by God, your virginity is the bedrock of your destiny. It is your spiritual beauty. It carries the star, potential and talent which God created with you to make you unique. It is the star in your sky. Please don’t pollute your destiny. The world is waiting for your star to shine! Your curiosity about sex and the way your body feels is normal. However, there’s so much you need to know which may eventually condition your mind and calm your desires. For now, DON’T dabble into it please

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