You might be wondering why you must show her PDA and if PDA is really a measure of love. To a lady, PDA means a lot in the course of a relationship and she has her reasons why she just loves a show of PDA from her man.
1. SHOWS YOU’RE PROUD OF HER
For a man to show a lady public display of affection then it means to a certain extent he’s proud of being with her. Ladies understand that when a man can’t show his affection for his lady publicly then it could mean that he’s probably not proud of having her in his life. A man could be ashamed to show PDA if the lady is ugly, bad looking or unkempt and those sorts of reasons.
2. TO MARK HER TERRITORY
You would hardly see a woman that wants to share her man with other women; every woman wants to mark her territory and make sure other ladies are aware that her man is a no go area. Ladies are usually suspicious of other ladies especially when their man is rich, good-looking, stylish or cute; so with PDA, they let everyone know that he’s and hers alone.
3. TO BE SURE THE LOVE ISN’T JUST AN INDOOR THING
This slightly relates with the first tip. When a man is all over a lady indoors but does the opposite when they are out poses a kind of threat to the lady. Threats like: he doesn’t really love me, he doesn’t appreciate me, he’s probably seeing someone else, I might not even be his number one and a lot of other negatives, but when he shows PDA, she has this assurance that he actually cares and his love isn’t just an indoor thing.
4. TO BE SURE THERE IS NO SIDE CHIC
If a man feels unsafe about PDA with his lady, he passes a message that there’s probably some other lady that he’s avoiding. So for a lady, if he feels comfortable with PDA then he’s probably clean.
5. TO BE SURE OF HIS FEELINGS
Like the name implies, PDA is a show of affection; if your partner can show affection to you in public then it passes a message of genuine feelings. A lady wants to be sure she isn’t in that relationship with herself; she wants to be sure that her man loves her the same way she loves him, and if he doesn’t show PDA then he’s definitely created room for doubts to breed.
6. IF YOU CAN SHOW YOUR FRIENDS THAT YOU CARE
Another huge reason most ladies love PDA is to make sure that her man can show what he claims even in front of his friends; the logic behind this is, if he doesn’t appreciate you in front of his friends then he probably doesn’t really value you, but if he can show that he loves you even when with his friends then he cares about you.
For a lady, PDA isn’t just PDA, it’s a test of affection; it shows care, love, affection and a lack of it might be suspicious, like there is something to hide. You wouldn’t blame a lady if she wants PDA, she has her reasons.
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