What makes some men charming and attractive in a woman’s eyes?
He calls only when he needs something. He replies to a lady’s texts after more than a day. He doesn’t bother with getting the door for her, letting her sit first or listening to what she has to say. Now, some men can’t be blamed for behaving like this. It’s entirely possible that they have no idea how to be a gentleman. There are some young men out there who don’t have the slightest idea how to treat a lady. Guys learn this things now before you loose your bae!!!
#1 Open the door for her. It simply never gets old. Yes, you’re aware that a woman is just as capable as you of opening doors. But the gesture itself is a sign that you’re willing to do this little thing for her. Not only does it show that you’re a proper gentleman, but it may also be admired for being such a polite guy.
#2 Listen to what she has to say. Nothing is ruder than blatantly paying attention to other things when someone is clearly trying to talk to you. Even if your date is talking about something you find absolutely boring, make it a point to try and listen to her. If you can, try to steer the conversation towards something you would both find interesting
#3 Avoid vulgar humor. No one likes a person who’s socially insensitive. If you’re on a date with someone you really like, the last thing you’d want to do is offend her. So before you whip out your dick jokes *no pun intended*, try to instead make her laugh with something wittier. And don’t think for a moment that insulting other people will immediately get you a laugh from her!
#4 Call more, text less. The problem with texting is that it can sometimes feel so impersonal. There’s no tone and there are no nonverbal cues to get out of them. Stop managing your credit, call your lady. Whenever you need to say something important to a lady, make it a point to call her up. Not only does this convey your sincerity better, but it also shows her that you’re willing to make some time to call her.
#5 Let her sit first. Much like getting the door for her, assisting her in settling down onto a chair isn’t something you do because she needs help. It just shows that you care about her comfort and that you would put it before your own
#6 Break up with her in person. If things don’t work out between you and your date, the least you can do is tell her in person. A text, a phone call, an email is never ever acceptable unless it’s in the direst of circumstances.
She deserves to hear it straight from you so that she has the chance to respond. Ignoring her simply because you’re not into her anymore is not only completely rude, but it can be very hurtful, especially if she has already developed feelings for you.
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